Anonymous asked:
hi,can i vent? anyways i like this girl (im a girl) and recently she told me she likes me but i never told her how i felt,idk why im not,maybe cuz i feel like i dont deserve her and im just not good with relationships but now she's been trying to "move on" thinking i dont feel the same and that its impossible for us to be together,and its killing me btw shes 19 turning 20 and im 16 probly one of the reasons also

well first off, you probably hear this a million times but you should NEVER feel like you’re not good enough. but i feel that the age thing IS a big part of it. i liked a guy who was 27 and he wanted to date me, but something about our age difference made me feel a little inferior, i geuss if that’s the correct word. like people say age is nothing but a number, but it’s a big deal, the fact that i was so many years younger kind of put a fear in me and made me feel like i wasn’t ready to date a person that age. or i was scared of what might come out of it, i felt like i was still immature and it scared me, cause i thought what if what he wants i can’t provide that, you know? have you ever seen the true life episode about dating the older people? but any who, does this make sense?